Keep it simple, keep it real. Don’t vex yourself with these kinda thoughts. And stop seeing those ins…….. Ssssshhhhh🤐🤐🤐..
Stop stop stop!!!
This is where we left a couple of days ago. And now it’s time to reveal it…
What is Ins??….🤔
Nah… not at all…
It’s a social networking site popular among the whole world people of all ages.
I N S T A G R A M
Now,… might be some people’s reaction would be like :
Maybe some already have left the page ’cause it can’t be any reason for breakups.
It’s a usual reaction!!…
But, I considered Instagram as a reason for breakups.
Now a big question in everyone’s head, probably I know…
Well, don’t worry…I will explain everything.
Instagram is most popular among the young boys and girls. Most of them are in relationships. A very popular content of Instagram is “Quotes”. Quotes about everything. Quotes about life, Quotes about love, Quotes about lovers, Quotes about relationships, etcetera etcetera. Those quotes are very attractively written and also, with deeper meanings. They’re so lovely.
Where is the problem then??..😠
Keep calm, keep calm, relax… I’ll tell the rest of the story. Just sit down and be humble.
Now imagine a couple who fall for each other. The girl is addicted to Instagram quotes, whether the boy loves simple and meaningful quotes, but not following the vogue of Instagram. The girl read the quotes about love every day. That lovely quotes definitely fascinate her. She believes in them so much and often talks about them with her lover. The boy positively responses to girl either. One day she reads a quote that says that “For a perfect relationship, both must be 50% similar and 50% different to each other.” Now, this quote tensed her so much as they both are almost opposite to each other in hobbies, interests, and thinking. (It doesn’t matter in love, however).
Now, this one quote climbed up so badly on her mind as She believes in quotes so much. And also, she heard a rumor about the same, so her believe becomes double stronger. When this quote being told by her to the boyfriend, he agreed for a while, but later denied it clearly. He said that it doesn’t matter and they should keep the things up. Here, the girl disbelieved him because her believe on quote was hard enough to break. Her outcome of this action is that a Scale had been installed in her mind that they must be 50-50. 80-20 is unstable. In other words, she had entangled in numbers. Thus, the resultant of their vectors showed a breakup.
I know that a lot of people have an objection to this. But at least for me, It was another reason for my own breakup as explained previously.
Not everything’s 100% perfect. I agree with all of you that Instagram quotes are totally valid and true to life. But some of the quotes make scales in our brain. As a result, we lost the control over our own decisions as they own the authority. Thus, our brain goes in accordance with them in our many decisions. Furthermore, the excess of anything is always bad. Reading quotes is good, but reading quotes all day all night, is not good. I’m not saying that you shouldn’t read Instagram quotes, but first check them, whether it is true or not, for any particular quote. And the most simple thing-
Your life is the biggest source of quotes. Your experiences. What life teaches you every day, is a quote. What new you experience, is a quote. What mistake you do, is a quote.
So there’s no reason to use Instagram or any other social networking as a quote house. The house of house of quotes is your own house of heart.
Exceeding it a little more, this is also a science. Whatever we read, whatever we watch in our surroundings or the Internet, whatever we hear from people about different-different things, It definitely affects our soul. Our mind. Because our brain collects all the information, which our sensors experience or bring to him as much as possible.
For instance, If you’re reading this post so carefully, it will definitely put an impact on your head and that impact maybe last for hours, for days, for months, for years or might be for the rest of your life. But it shall be, to some extent.
This is not a major, but a minor reason of breakups (including mine). Nevertheless, you must be aware of the quotes. Better you apply them in real before you admit. Some quotes are obvious among them that they do not need to be examined. Keep this thing also in mind.
I can stretch this post more and more and more that it would never find its end. But keeping it short and simple, I just want to say,
“Beware all of the entanglements around you. Keep it real, keep it simple. Love happens in its own style.”
Thank you so much!
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