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Solve out this puzzle…🙅
Sorry! Sorry! Sorry! I’ve been late I guess !!… Anyway,…Now we shall begin 😊
This topic somehow related to lower confidence in relationships originally.
Then what are Warnings?…🙄
Cool down! Cool down! I’ll explain everything. Here it is:
If a boy offers a proposal of relationship to the girl and her answer is something like this-
Dear, I don’t want to hurt you, you will hurt being with me, I might break your heart down.
These types of answers are Warnings!
The reasons behind the Warnings may be:
• She is afraid of her parents ’cause they do not allow love to be entered in their child’s heart or their home.
• She has had a bad relationship experience before with someone, which ended up bitterly and she hypothesized that that happened because of her.
• She isn’t confident enough about relationships.
• She’s so scared of relationships.
One or more could be the reasons behind that kind of answers. The answers could be from the boy too for same or slightly different wherefores.
In girl’s case, first two are the main reasons. So let’s talk about them!
Afraid of parents: She isn’t free in her own home to do anything so how could she be in the society? They bridle the girls terrifically so that they couldn’t be in any type of relationship. They want to find their girl’s life partner by themselves. The arranged marriages are still dominating in my state with 99% estimation. Relationships are hell for them. Except for India, this is famous in several other countries also. The girls ought to be free first, to make relationships. Girls of these sort of families can’t even dare to think about a relationship in dreams. Some try to break the rule, but they still have the fear, thus a doubt. Like, in my case, my girlfriend’s family was too much strict, but I was her fourth boyfriend. Despite having this much experience, she still was afraid of her family that what would they say when they would come to know about this?……Fortunately, her doubt won and they never come across this secret relation.
Bad relationship experience: I think this shouldn’t be the reason. If the first one is a bad experience, then the second one may won’t be. It could be recovered. The second time is the chance to correct the mistakes. She shouldn’t be afraid to rectify her mistakes. Adding one more important thing, If she believes that she could hurt the other person, then she could! No doubt. This is up to us that what we believe, and what we believe, becomes reality.
Okay, now make this point more interesting!
Suppose that somehow the boy convinced her that everything will be fine in them and she shouldn’t be afraid of anything. But still, somewhere in her heart, that doubts, those beliefs, that fear do exist. And we know that whatever is in your heart for each other, certainly affects your relationship bond. The connection is being flagged up slowly, though it is unknown to them. And eventually, the things get way too critical and collapsed. Thus, her believe proved to be right.
The key point is that if you keep doubts in your mind, nothing can be achieved. Your one leg is in one boat and the other is in other. Being like this, you can never cross the ocean. If you really are afraid, then don’t say yes again. Things become complicated when you are bipolar that is, you are saying a different thing to the other person, but there’s a different story going on inside your heart.
Despite all of this, you shouldn’t let yourself to think negative and little. You ought to restrict the low confidence and other down feelings. Rather focus on the past, you should give your heart full in the present to make your future better.
So these are the main points in this article. The latter two are directly related to these as if a girl has a bad experience, she will obviously not confident next time and become scared of relationships.
I inscribed the article in feminine form. The same situations could be with boys though. But these sort of things are more usual in girls.
So girls, be confident about your relationships. There’s nothing to lose. It’s life. Make the most out of it.
Keep it simple, keep it real to avoid the wrecks!
Hope you have liked this article!
Have a lovely day!