|| Interesting Help ||

Hey folks! How are you doing?…πŸ™‹

Well, in the last few months, I experienced another thing which is really interesting. Probably some of you might have experienced this.

A month ago, I gave the IELTS exam which all you know I criticized a lot. But I did that though. I scored 6.5 out of 9.0 in the exam. You can submit your application for further study in any country by this score (Australia and Canada are popular). But I didn’t do that. Even one of my relative said that they’ll do all the expenses of the process, plus find me a good job there (they’re in Australia by the way). Only I need to say Yes that I want to go to Australia for Study.

As you know I protest the way the students or the youngsters are going abroad from here, so I refused the offer including a job probably of Salary 900 USD per month. And chose to live here and right now doing a job of Salary less than 60 USD per month.

But wait…….

I guess I’m supposed to discuss a thing which I experienced. Right??… πŸ€”πŸ€”πŸ˜•

Okay. Now jump to the point.

The relative I described above is actually my real sister’s husband. He asked me that he’ll do all the expenses approximately $17000. Why would he do this??….

Because he’s also offering me a job of 900 USD per month and he’s damn sure that I will return all his money by that job. He doesn’t need to worry because I’m going straight at his door. Now, here is the interesting part of the story:

Well, if I ask him that I choose to live in India and don’t want to come abroad and need some financial help for my music stuff, the person would say: “Well, there are a lot of expenses in big countries like Australia, so we don’t have enough. I’m sorry I can’t help you kid.”

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Even I wouldn’t ask him for $17000 but not more than $1700.

Isn’t it interesting and astonishing?…

Now, where’s his helpΒ gone??…

Where all his money gone??….

The answer is:

He’s not sure that I will return his money by living in India. Because maybe I can’t get a good salary job. Maybe I would rove around the offices for the job resumes. Who knows if I’d be able to give his HELP(money) back?

So simply he would refuse to help me.

People do your help only when they get something in return. They want the reward of their help.

Nobody’s gonna support you financially. Especially when you’re going on the way of your passion and dreams. Because people are uncertain about the “Way of Passion”. That’s why the most don’t follow it.

All I want to say to all the people around here that don’t distract from your path If you’re not getting financial support or something else. Be patient during this time period. The time will change.

So, my question for all the people who are reading this blog is,

“Should we take this kind of help I mentioned here or just stay on your own way ?”

Please discuss this topic. I love to discuss the things around here with you. πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜β€β€

Thank you!

B. M.

8 Comments

  1. Good evening dear, i read your interesting help story in deed it is very true , going aboard studying and working is not an easy task, getting a job of your choice is just a dream at time not near to reality. Yes salary is attractive but hours of working is very long. Expenses are high same time, stay back in your own country is better as that give you less risk life . Your blog is very interesting real life experience matters at the end of the day.
    Take care, best regards sks

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  2. People won’t help you unless they get something from you in return, period. Even I believe that we should try to stay in our homeland and improve it. Well study abroad all you want but at least give something back to the country that made you this capable.

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    1. Exactly….
      That’s why I wouldn’t like to go anywhere else for the study….
      Neither I will……..
      Thanks much for stopping by Lavanya…πŸ™‚
      Great to see you after long time.. πŸ€—πŸ€—β€β€πŸ™‚.

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