If you profoundly analyze your life, you will notice that the darks and lights of your life go hand in hand. Just like a sine wave, a positive hemisphere followed by the negative one. This is how it is designed by nature. A morning comes after a night full of dark and night comes after a day full of light. The Universe itself has created the rule of duality due to which the two sides of each coin exist.
what if Nature herself says that the mind you're using to create these things, belongs to her and she's the owner of it?........ Have you ever thought about this?
The impact of surroundings can also pierce the moral and spiritual traits like honesty, patience, understanding and so on. An honest father's son could be wicked and selfish or vice versa. It depends that what he observes the most around him, especially during his childhood. Not only observation, but it is also important that how much the information mesmerizes or fascinates him and how much he revises the information because the impact is created by the revision.
Being lustful is the most important and mandatory need for every individual if he wants to enjoy the pleasure of Orgasm. It's God gifted and starts to thrive in teenage, although they are present in the brain since childhood.
If you believe that the behavior of parents towards children matters only, then may be you are looking from only one perspective. The mutual behavior of parents is also monitored by offsprings with equal attention they give to other things.